Sexual pressure: help please?

OK so I've had guys ask me if I squirt or if I would do anal? I have always been really good with my body, and I can make myself *** a lot. My first partner could make me gum at least twice during sex, once while inside me then again just using his hand. I've had sex with some other guys but now my current partner is pressuring me about anal and if I squirt? I haven't *** with him yet either, and he is sexier and closer to my age than my first partner was. My first partner was older. How is it that my first partner could make me *** but the other guys can't either though they try hard? And is a girl squirting really that common? Is anal safe, how do I tell my bf no to anal?!